Enchanted Collaboration

Collaboration in Theatre
Sydell and Rex, Sept. 3, 1992

As a director of theatre I always appreciated the art of collaboration. Besides working with actors, I was charged with  bringing together set, lighting and costume designers. When creative artists are open and feed off each other’s ideas, we do our best work.

I was nervous about directing A Midsummer Night’s Dream, since it was my first Shakespeare on a college campus. Would my students be able to handle the language well enough for the audience to understand? It was a 3.5 hour play, so when I found a cutting that brought it down to a manageable 2 hours, my doubts began to subside.

I started by meeting with Rex, Cal State’s hot shot set designer. He strutted into the green room wearing his usual paint covered jeans, with a wad of keys hanging from his belt loop.

Collaboration with a set designer

He was an intense, wiry man in his mid-40s, who was passionate about his work. We’d already done a few shows together, so I wasn’t intimidated. We agreed to have an initial design meeting after he’d read through my cut version of the script.

I came to his office the following week bearing 2 cups of high octane coffee, the kind available in every theatre department. I was relieved that he liked the cutting, which he affectionately referred to as the “Readers Digest” version. “What image does the play evoke in you?” he asked. The question threw me for a loop. I was used to being asked, “Where do you want the entrance, down right or down left?” I’d never considered the idea of an image or an overriding concept, but it was the basis for our collaboration.

I told him that my favorite part of A Midsummer Night’s Dream was the fantasy of being in an enchanted forest with no rules or boundaries. My strongest image was of dreamlike characters flying free. He nodded and said, “Let me think about it.” He came back to me the next day, this time bringing coffee to my office. On a piece of poster board he had painted a beautiful pink, yellow, and pale blue butterfly. “Does this say it to you?” he asked.

I loved the image, but it felt too literal. The play tells the story of star crossed lovers who run away to a magical forest, where they’re surrounded by creatures of the night.

“I see mysterious beings appearing unexpectedly from hidden caves and pathways,” I told him.

“Would you like a darker, wilder atmosphere?” he asked.

“Exactly,” I answered. “The butterfly just seems too tame.” 

“Yes, I see what you mean,” Rex replied. “If we’re true to the text,             the creatures are fairies who appear when night is at its darkest. I don’t think it could be created with lighting effects alone.”

I thought not, but needed his input to be sure.

“Can you give the set a moodier, more romantic quality?” I asked. “I         want it to reflect the forbidden love story of the mortals as well.”

He smiled at me and nodded, letting me know we were on the same page. I was excited by how easily we could share our ideas, and develop a concept through collaboration.

Three days later Rex came back to me with an entire set design. The pinks and yellows had been replaced by deep purples and blues. His rendering looked like a roller coaster covered with iridescent pieces of delicate fabric.

Collaboration on Midsummer
A Midsummer Night’s Dream

There were places under rocks where the fairies could hide, appear, and then reappear somewhere else. Up left, ten feet off the ground, there was an asymmetrical stairway leading gradually down to center stage. This is where Oberon and his Queen Tatiana would make their stately entrances. I couldn’t believe that this was the result of our collaboration.

It was magical and inspired me to take chances as a director. With so many levels and hiding places, it seemed obvious to make the production more visual. The fairies pranced seamlessly from level to level, making it look like they were actually flying. The actors created stage pictures that reflected the meaning of the play. If the audience didn’t catch every word, they could easily understand by following the characters’ movements. Instead of the words being obstacles, they became doors to visual images that opened everyone’s imagination.

One night during the last week of rehearsals, Rex noticed how the actors seemed to populate every inch of his set. He leaned over to me and I felt his breath close to my ear. “Sydell,” he whispered, “you have a wonderful sense of composition.” It was the sexiest thing anyone had ever said to me. By the end of A Midsummer Night’s Dream, it was clear; I was in love with my set designer and he was smitten with me.

We both acknowledged our feelings, and decided to try going on a date. It didn’t take long for the artistic collaboration to turn deeply personal. In 1992, with our friends and family bearing witness, we got married in our beautiful backyard. In the 30 years we knew each other we did over 20 productions together. None of them compares to the richness of our 24 year marriage. I lost Rex 2 years ago, and I miss him terribly.

Alaskan collaboration
Sydell and Rex in 2013

We had plenty of challenges, yet I wouldn’t have traded those years for all the enchanted forests of Shakespeare’s boundless imagination.

Sydell Weiner, 9/1/2018

12 thoughts on “Enchanted Collaboration”

  1. I have tears in my eyes. What a wonderful tribute to your time together–your artistic collaborations and sensibilities leading into your deeply personal collaboration outside of theatre! I love the addition of the photos of the two of you together and of him with his paint-splattered jeans and wad of keys hanging from his belt! The part when he leaned over and you could feel his breath on your neck as he said that you have such a great sense of composition–that was so powerful, especially when you said that it was the sexiest thing anyone had ever said to you.

    One small note: I noticed a typo at the butterfly part. The word you meant was ‘seems’ and what you typed was ‘sees.’

    I really liked the closing, the way you sum it all up and bring us back full-circle to the Midsummer Night’s Dream set and that you wouldn’t trade any of your experiences together (challenges and all) for the beautiful romantic set. That really paints a picture and instills a mood of love, passion, mutual respect, and kindred spirits. Thank you for sharing!

    1. Thanks for the comments, Dawn. I found the typo you mentioned, so I’m grateful for that. So grateful to be sharing our journeys!

  2. Your words have always spoken to me through your heart. Of course, these words do as well but, with the truest feeling of the love you and Rex had for each other. You both were blessed with each other.

  3. What a tale of enchantment and synchronicity. What a beautiful life . I wish we had stayed in touch. Sending you love and thoughts of strength. The light is in the darkness.
    In passion, and commitment we persevere and grow.

  4. I am so privileged to be a part of your life with Rex. I love you Sydell and I wish you all the happiness in the world. And I truly believe you are a gifted artist in so many ways, especially in the ways you communicate. I am enjoying spending this special day with you on the anniversary of your lovely wedding day.

  5. Little did I know that this was how your relationship started. Beautiful and fitting. Happy anniversary. Love you always. Barbara.

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